Not only this, but we also
rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces perseverance; and
perseverance, proven character; and proven character, hope: and
hope doesn’t disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured out into our
hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us. (Romans 5: 3-5 WEB)
For a
month, my son and his family lived at Trail West, a Young Life camp in Colorado,
while he was a staff member there. Each of his daughters received a tab for the
snack shop. As time at camp ran out so did the money.
But two
determined granddaughters devised a plan. They created bracelets and rings of
painters tape. The sale of their jewelry produced enough money for a yummy
shake. Two straws in the delicious ice cream made the pair happy.
It would
have been easy for their parents to supply more money for their treats, but the
girls would have missed an important lesson. Using their perseverance,
creativity and sisterly love provided more than an ice cream shake.
Not bailing
people out can be difficult. It seems to be more loving to step in and take
care of their troubles. However, if they never have to solve their own
problems, they won’t develop the perseverance, character, and hope that Paul
wrote about.
At times,
we all need a helping hand. But continuing to provide what they need or think
they need doesn’t allow them to grow and use their own abilities.
Heavenly Father, guide
us in knowing when to assist others and when to let them figure things out on
their own. Thank you for your love. Amen
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