Tuesday, September 27, 2016

Reflections on Cuba 2016 #1



            Cuba, a land stalled in the 1950’s and struggling to catch up to the world. A country of potential and decay. Vibrant but beaten down. A world so close to the United States but so far away.

            The imposing, Spanish fort greeted our ship as we sailed into the harbor of Havana. Years earlier, Alan and I walked the grounds of the fort and learned of its history. On my latest trip, Alan was no longer with me and our tour didn’t include the fort.

            Nostalgia  for the simpler times of the 50’s took seasoned travelers to a long prohibited destination for Americans. The majority wanted to see it before the uniqueness disappeared.  No other passengers I talked with had ever visited the island. Because our church received a special license, we had permission to travel there. I had gone once and Alan twice. I wondered what changes I would see. Instead of a mission trip, my latest one was labeled as a person to person one.

            Shiny, vintage cars told only a bit of the story of Cuba. The Revolution of 1959 threw out an oppressive dictator and wealthy, foreign landowners.  Cuban business owners and professionals left when homes and businesses were seized by the government. Many who opposed Castro escaped. Life on the beautiful island changed.

            Crumbling buildings and broken streets stood beside renovated, ornate structures. More renovations are being done since my first trip. Running water and electricity have improved but still were not always reliable.

            Engineers, teachers, and doctors, who receive low government wages, worked as tour guides and drivers to make enough money to support their families. One guide told me that the government now allows them to keep tips to add to the small pay for each job. In that way, they have a better quality of life.

            At a fort near Santiago, two young men labored with machetes to cut grass. One looked at me with pleading eyes. I couldn’t understand his words but knew he was asking for money. I shook my head. Begging had not been a part of our first trip. I had just been accosted in the city so didn’t want to give him anything.

            As he stared at me, I saw desperation. Sweat dripped down his face. I heard, “Agua.” That word I knew. A military guard walked up and spoke to the man.

            Immediately, I left to find a vendor at a small store. With two bottles of chilled water, I hurried back to the fort before my deadline for lunch. The weary men continued to swipe at the grass in the stifling heat. I prayed that the guard would not reappear.

            I handed the bottles up to the men. They thanked me and drank the refreshing water. Because of the intense heat, I constantly drank water to keep from becoming dehydrated, but I saw no evidence of any drinks for them.

            That was a true people to people encounter. A white American woman and black Cuban man connected without words. Our eyes and bottles of water brought us together.

            Would they have passed out in the crushing heat? Were they at the fort every day? Was it their job or a punishment? I received no answers but thanked God for allowing me to help them.


            The language barrier stopped me from asking questions, but the water, given in the name of Jesus, helped them know compassion.

Monday, September 26, 2016

A Day with Molly



            As soon as I received cell phone service on my return from Cuba, I learned my last uncle had passed away. Two days later I flew to Indiana for his memorial service. Both trips brought various emotions and experiences. As I pondered what to write about each journey, I kept putting it off. Distractions pulled me away from ideas that swam in my head.

            Then I spent the day with my six-year-old granddaughter Molly. Her enthusiasm for life and deep thinking gave me a break from more serious subjects. We talked, but mostly I listened. We played, laughed and ate ice cream.

            Her nonstop observations and questions made me think and not take myself so seriously. She had planned our “Special Time with Grandma” which was her birthday gift. Her instructions. Pick me up from church. Go to lunch. Bake cookies for the police or firemen. Get dessert. Go swimming.

            As we drove to my house, she kept me entertained with her nonstop talking. Then the questions became more serious. “Do animals go to heaven?” she asked.

            “I don’t know. I haven’t been there.”

            “I wish we had more technology. Then we could call Grandpa and he could tell us if there were animals up there. What are we going to have for lunch? I want to go swimming. Can we bake? Can I clean? Next time I have Time with Grandma, I want to have a cleaning day. I like to clean at other people’s houses,” she continued.

            After a barrage of more questions, we ate lunch, made cookies, and took them to our local fire station. A fireman gave us a tour of the fire engine and helped her sit in the driver’s seat. Even though she loved seeing the truck, her motivation was to give not receive.


            What a delightful, fun filled day we had. Instead of spending money on expensive activities, she wanted to bake and serve the firemen. She had fun with mundane chores like doing dishes and scrubbing the shower. No matter what we did, her sweet spirit made it fun for both of us. At six, she knew that being with someone you love is most important.

Saturday, September 3, 2016

Another Loss



“My soul weeps and trouble weighs me down; give me strength so I can stand according to your words. (The Voice)

            “Pray for my son to be found. “ The Facebook post startled me. I prayed.
            The second post broke my heart. “My son is in the arms of Jesus.”
            My heart ached again for another loss. A life gone too early leaving grieving family and friends heartbroken.
            Friends posted condolences. People prayed. There were no words to take away the pain. Love and prayers will hold them up. God will get them through the unimaginable  agony.
            My grief journey showed me that even in intense pain, God showed up. I learned to look for the glory in the midst of my pain often in tiny ways but sometimes in huge ones.

            Heavenly Father, surround my friend, her family and friends with your love. Help them to see you even in their tears. Amen