Saturday, August 27, 2011

A Special Doctor



Dressed in a white lab coat, the small doctor made his rounds. His encouragement and engaging smile touched patients and their parents. For years he attended to children in the cancer ward of Arnold Palmer Hospital for Children in Orlando.
He held no medical degree or ever attended college. In fact, most of his schooling took place at home. But his expertise about the procedures and compassion earned respect from those around him.
Dr. Joseph’s second home was the renown hospital. Doctors, nurses, and other staff members became colleagues and friends.
When other children played in parks, attended school, and joined ball teams, Dr. Joseph visited doctors’ offices, endured painful treatments, and stayed in hospital rooms. His compromised immune system and often fragile body kept him from normal childhood activities.
Nevertheless, his spirit soared. When other children at the hospital expressed fear, Dr. Joseph explained procedures and offered hope. Knowing he had endured the same treatments, they listened and were calmed. He made many friends. Some returned home. Some went to heaven.
The cancer ward stripped away the insignificant parts of life. Dr. Joseph knew what was important. He knew Jesus.
Last year at his dad’s funeral, Dr. Joseph circulated during the reception laughing and talking with friends. Hospital staff and patients came to offer support to his family. Though both were dying, Dr. Joseph and his teenaged friend enjoyed each other’s company in spite of their terminal diseases.
As his health declined and treatments refused to work, he continued to visit with family and friends. On good days, he played video games with his three brothers. His pirate birthday party occurred a month early to be sure he could make it. He did survive until his eighth birthday.
Hospice allowed him to be at home with his family at the end. He suffered more pain in his short life than most adults in a normal life time. He probably spread more joy and love of Jesus than most adults too.
Even though we grieve his passing, we celebrate his amazing life. Now his home is with Jesus and his dad.

3 comments:

  1. Thank you for this tribute, Rebecca. Joseph left Jordan when he was two (I think it was) so we didn't have a chance to know him the way you did but his family is well loved by many here.
    Melissa
    Amman, Jordan

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  2. They are loved here too. A special family. My husband and I were delighted join Mervat's family for dinner one night when we were in Jordan.

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  3. Rebecca: I am a dear friend of the family and I appreciate your reflections focusing on this special doctor and precious child. Mervat and her boys will cherish this BLOG reflections on Joseph's life and have a wonderful memory.

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